2020-01-24
So
Can I surprise them by telling them to make a stop along the way to get my girlfriend?
Yeah, I did not think so.
Yeah, I did not think so.
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2020-01-14
So, What, Did It Go Like This?
"I mean, this connection does nothing good for any of you.
Not to you, because you feel like you are constantly disappointing him, forgetting him and stuff.
Not to your partner, because no partner wants their partner to talk to their ex that is still hung up on them.
Not to him, because he will always want more than you can/care to give.
So, you should just cut him off. Telling him off would be unpleasant to the both of you and make it more difficult, even more than just not talking to him anymore.
Also, telling him off would probably take a phone call, or worst, meeting him and that takes too much coordination.
Not having to explain anything would lead to less consciously uncomfortable moments.
And you will not think about it a lot anyway, because of your general forgetfulness, so it is the only way where the least amount of people get hurt."
Not to you, because you feel like you are constantly disappointing him, forgetting him and stuff.
Not to your partner, because no partner wants their partner to talk to their ex that is still hung up on them.
Not to him, because he will always want more than you can/care to give.
So, you should just cut him off. Telling him off would be unpleasant to the both of you and make it more difficult, even more than just not talking to him anymore.
Also, telling him off would probably take a phone call, or worst, meeting him and that takes too much coordination.
Not having to explain anything would lead to less consciously uncomfortable moments.
And you will not think about it a lot anyway, because of your general forgetfulness, so it is the only way where the least amount of people get hurt."
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I Mean
Labels: Failure
Many Rings
Can trigger the gaydar.
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2020-01-12
The Urge That Never Stops
Breaking a meaningful relationship, of any kind, will forever create uncomfortable situations.
You will always have the urge to reach out to them.
For example, you dream of them (and remember it!), or you see something that they would have liked, or you just have the urge to talk to them.
It, obviously, becomes more infrequent as time goes by.
But it involves a lot of restraint.
A restraint that after a while feels unnecessary.
But if you lift the restraint and approach them (assuming they cooperate with you), you will probably soon re-discover the reason why the relationship was broken in the first place - it just does not work.
But that does not mean you cannot tinker with the idea every once in a while, feeling bad about it and want to lift those restraints.
You will always have the urge to reach out to them.
For example, you dream of them (and remember it!), or you see something that they would have liked, or you just have the urge to talk to them.
It, obviously, becomes more infrequent as time goes by.
But it involves a lot of restraint.
A restraint that after a while feels unnecessary.
But if you lift the restraint and approach them (assuming they cooperate with you), you will probably soon re-discover the reason why the relationship was broken in the first place - it just does not work.
But that does not mean you cannot tinker with the idea every once in a while, feeling bad about it and want to lift those restraints.
Labels: Failure
2020-01-11
If You Want Something To Be Taken Off The Shelves
Just make sure I like it.
Labels: Failure