2020-01-14
So, What, Did It Go Like This?
"I mean, this connection does nothing good for any of you.
Not to you, because you feel like you are constantly disappointing him, forgetting him and stuff.
Not to your partner, because no partner wants their partner to talk to their ex that is still hung up on them.
Not to him, because he will always want more than you can/care to give.
So, you should just cut him off. Telling him off would be unpleasant to the both of you and make it more difficult, even more than just not talking to him anymore.
Also, telling him off would probably take a phone call, or worst, meeting him and that takes too much coordination.
Not having to explain anything would lead to less consciously uncomfortable moments.
And you will not think about it a lot anyway, because of your general forgetfulness, so it is the only way where the least amount of people get hurt."
Not to you, because you feel like you are constantly disappointing him, forgetting him and stuff.
Not to your partner, because no partner wants their partner to talk to their ex that is still hung up on them.
Not to him, because he will always want more than you can/care to give.
So, you should just cut him off. Telling him off would be unpleasant to the both of you and make it more difficult, even more than just not talking to him anymore.
Also, telling him off would probably take a phone call, or worst, meeting him and that takes too much coordination.
Not having to explain anything would lead to less consciously uncomfortable moments.
And you will not think about it a lot anyway, because of your general forgetfulness, so it is the only way where the least amount of people get hurt."
Labels: Failure