2020-01-12
The Urge That Never Stops
Breaking a meaningful relationship, of any kind, will forever create uncomfortable situations.
You will always have the urge to reach out to them.
For example, you dream of them (and remember it!), or you see something that they would have liked, or you just have the urge to talk to them.
It, obviously, becomes more infrequent as time goes by.
But it involves a lot of restraint.
A restraint that after a while feels unnecessary.
But if you lift the restraint and approach them (assuming they cooperate with you), you will probably soon re-discover the reason why the relationship was broken in the first place - it just does not work.
But that does not mean you cannot tinker with the idea every once in a while, feeling bad about it and want to lift those restraints.
You will always have the urge to reach out to them.
For example, you dream of them (and remember it!), or you see something that they would have liked, or you just have the urge to talk to them.
It, obviously, becomes more infrequent as time goes by.
But it involves a lot of restraint.
A restraint that after a while feels unnecessary.
But if you lift the restraint and approach them (assuming they cooperate with you), you will probably soon re-discover the reason why the relationship was broken in the first place - it just does not work.
But that does not mean you cannot tinker with the idea every once in a while, feeling bad about it and want to lift those restraints.
Labels: Failure